Morons

Well I am enjoying another day at the bookstore. Its offset though by the fact some asshole(s) decided to play arsonist. Currently there are several brush fires burning north of us. People are now being required to evacuate. Most people dont think of Hawaii having a drought, but this part of the island has been under a severe drought for probably a year. We wont have the catastrophe of Southern California, but its still sad that such jerks have to ruin things for others. I just had to show a tourist where the roads are closed so she can avoid getting stuck in that area. To top things off, my 11 yo dd managed to slam her finger in a door at her cousins. The smashed it big time, and the door frame sliced right across the finger pad (ouch). She was so upset (refused to ice it) that hubby had to pick her up. I havent dared call home to see how she is, hubby cannot handle this kind of stuff at all. Well back to "work".

adoption cures infertility

Adoption as a cure for infertility. Yeah right! I was thinking about this from another blog. I heard a lot of comments growing up. People would ask if all of us were adopted or if aparents had any real kids. Thanks, asshole. "Did you HAVE to adopt?" Many comments were made as if we kids couldnt hear them. "Where did you get them?" Like we were stray puppies found on the street. My amother even commented she was glad that they couldnt have "real" kids because of the mental health issues. When I went to Denver to visit ndad, nbro's wife even had her comment. She had just had their first baby in Aug. She told me she was so worried she couldnt get pregnant and that they would HAVE to adopt. Sigh. Adoption is very rarely first choice, just look at all the infertility treatments/clinics. The three of us certainly didnt fix our aparents issue. Adad even fathered at least one child while married to amom. I wonder if his REAL kid will show up looking for him. I watched a show the other day where the woman commented on how many years of trying, surgeries etc to get pregnant. After four years, she and her husband "decided" to adopt. Their little boy was the solution to their problem. Imagine how he will feel when he hears about all the heartache while his aparents tried to conceive, and then they decided to adopt. Adoption=second choice